12 Self-Reflective Questions To Know Whether or Not You Have Caused Others To Sin or Stumble.

Soldiers drowning woman with millstone tied around her neck“We don’t cause people to sin or stumble, people choose to sin or stumble all on their own.” Ever heard that, or something like it? Is there any truth in that? Before answering, consider these:

We can be an agent of temptation. – “Temptations to sin are sure to come, but woe to the one through whom they come!” (Luke 17:1) Can you recall a situation in which you might have tempted someone to sin recently?

We can cause sin. – “But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a great millstone fastened around his neck and to be drowned in the depth of the sea.” (Matthew 18:6) Can you clearly remember the last time you caused someone to sin? If not, is that a history that’s doomed to repeat itself?

We can decide to be a hindrance and a ‘stumbling block.’ – “but rather decide never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of a brother.” (Romans 14:13) It does seem from this text that believers have the ability to decide not to do that which might harm another.  Have you purposefully made decisions to be a hindrance or stumbling block to another?

We can excessively defend our rights in such a way that weakens others. – “Therefore, if food makes my brother stumble, I will never eat meat, lest I make my brother stumble.” (1 Corinthians 8:13) And, “But take care that this right of yours does not somehow become a stumbling block to the weak. (1 Corinthians 8:9) This would include defending our freedom in Christ by doing what is perfectly fine for us in front of those who do not yet have that freedom.  Have you declared your rights or acted in such a way to be the demise of another?

We can manhandle scripture. – “Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who has no need to be ashamed, rightly handling the word of truth.” (2 Timothy 2:15) This gets tricky. It is far too easy to get the approval of others for your actions when your peer group has all chosen to interpret or handle scripture in a way that’s most convenient for them.  Have you misconceived scripture in such a way that enforces or invites another to sin?

We can be unhelpful. – “All things are lawful for me,” but not all things are helpful. “All things are lawful for me,” but I will not be enslaved by anything.” (1 Corinthians 6:12)  Have you been unhelpful to another in need and be a catalyst in their sin?

We can dress inappropriately. – “Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness with good works. Before anyone has a brain rupture here, that’s guys and gals, and not, in my opinion to be taken absolutely literally. But there is a principle here. There are two questions to be considered here; first, “Am I adorning myself in such a way that will tempt others or cause them to sin?’ and second, “Am I doing it on purpose?” Feel free to unload on me in the comment section on this one.

We can be offensive. – “Give no offense to Jews or to Greeks or to the church of God.” (1 Corinthians 10:32) Notice that this short verse includes everyone. We can be offensive to believers and unbelievers. Do you tend to be offensive to others?

We can be boastful. – “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Has your boastfulness boastfulness deconstructed another or cause them to sin or stumble?

We can be doubtful. – “But whoever has doubts is condemned if he eats, because the eating is not from faith. For whatever does not proceed from faith is sin.” (Romans 14:23) You know when you’re doubtful about a particular action. Others know hen you’re doubtful too. They sense it. But, operating from doubt or ‘letting the chips fall where they may in our actions can wreak havoc in the lives of others.  Has something you’ve been doubtful about pushed another towards sin?

We can love falsely. – “If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing. Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; …” (1 Corinthians 13) Have you faked love, and has this fake love caused another to sin or stumble?

We can be oblivious to the struggles of others. – “Let him know that whoever brings back a sinner from his wandering will save his soul from death and will cover a multitude of sins.” (James 5:20) Now, this doesn’t justify heresy hunters or sin skinners, but neither does it permit us, as we go about the course of our daily lives, to ignore the works of service (Ephesians 2:10) that God places before us. Has your being oblivious or aloof caused another to sin or stumble?

This is not intended to be a hit list or a judgmental tirade. This should not be used to bolster your Pharisaism. This is a sifter of self-reflection. When ever I have read the warnings Jesus gave in Luke 17, Matthew 18, and Mark 9, to those who would cause others to sin or stumble, I probably thought “Wow! I’m glad I’m not one of those guys.” but in a bit of my own self-reflection today, I can clearly see that I have.  I am thankful I can go to the one who can unburden me. How about you?

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”

 

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  1. Marshall says:

    σκανδαλιζο, ensnare; entrap
    προσκομμα, strike-toward

    Luke 17:1 “snares are sure to come,…”
    Matthew 18:6 “yet whoever should be snaring one of these little ones, ….”
    Romans 14:13 “…not to place a snare nor strike-toward your brother.”
    I Corinthians 8:13 “…that I may not snare my brother.”
    I Corinthians 8:9 “bewaring/looking, lest somehow this authority of yours may be becoming strike-toward your brother.”
    II Timothy 2:15 “endeavoring [at a quick pace] to be standing as tested [infer:approved] to The God [as] an unashamed worker straight-cutting/apportioning the word of the truth” — not about “handling” the word on behalf of others.
    I Corinthians 6:12 (within context) doesn’t address how “unhelpful” we may be. “helpful” is an abstract idea. Simply not “helpful” to assume “unhelpful” as an activity or “catalyst” of temptation.
    I Timothy 2 shows the context of modest apparel & presentation… it’s not about avoiding the tempting others to sin. It is a reminder to representing Christ Jesus as His servant-ambassadors.
    I Corinthians 10:32 “you are [intent] to becoming unoffensive…” but if we soon forget… the offense of the cross and of the truth we carry within ourselves.
    Ephesians 2:8-9 that we have or share any “boast”, it is in Christ.
    Romans 14:23 if/when a child of God acts outside faith, he/she has fallen. Whatever is not of faith is sin. Seldom would be intended to take down others with them in their doubts. God forbid!
    I Corinthians 13 Why “fake” what you know in Christ? But to carry out a fraud is to deceive. It is the children of the devil who carry forward in deception.
    James 5:20; Ephesians 2:10 surely God is able to reveal what we need know in-time sufficient. Thankfully, at any moment perceiving the need of another does not depend in human surveillance or insight. If the Spirit is urging you to do or say, and you don’t, this is about listening obediently and not about tempting others to sins. Simple neglect is not a valid agent of temptation, and as with Jesus who went without provision 40 days BEFORE being tempted by the Adversary.

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